Is Nesting a Viable Option for Divorced Couples?
Divorce often brings about a multitude of emotional and logistical challenges, particularly when children are involved. One emerging solution that some divorced couples are considering is “nesting.” Nesting, or “bird’s nest custody,” refers to a living arrangement where children remain in the family home and the divorced parents take turns living in the house while […]
De-Triangulating a Child from Parental Conflict
Parental conflict can be a significant source of stress for children, often leading them to become enmeshed in the disputes, a phenomenon known as triangulation. As a systemic family psychotherapist, I approach de-triangulating a child from parental conflict by focusing on restoring healthy family dynamics and fostering direct communication between parents. Here are several key […]
Five Shocking Ways Family Court Treats Expert Witnesses
Brian refuses to accept family law court assessment referrals Expert witnesses play a crucial role in family court, providing specialised knowledge and opinions to help judges make informed decisions. However, the way family courts handle these experts can sometimes be surprising and concerning. Here are five shocking ways family courts treat expert witnesses: 1. Selective […]
My partner is such a good person, but I don’t love her any more. What should I do?
My partner is such a good person, but I don’t love her any more. What should I do? Relationships are complex and ever-changing, often requiring introspection and difficult decisions. As a psychotherapist, I’ve seen many individuals struggle with the realisation that their feelings towards their partner have shifted, even though their partner remains a good […]
Parallel Parenting: Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Minimal Conflict
Parallel Parenting: Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Minimal Conflict Divorce is never easy, and when it’s accompanied by high levels of conflict, co-parenting can feel like an insurmountable challenge. In such situations, parallel parenting offers a solution that allows both parents to remain actively involved in their children’s lives while minimising direct interaction and conflict. As […]
Navigating Parenthood After Separation: Insights from a Family Therapist
Navigating Parenthood After Separation: Insights from a Family Therapist Parenting is a challenging yet rewarding journey, and when it intersects with the complexities of separation or divorce, the terrain can become even more daunting. As a family therapist, I’ve worked with many families navigating this transition, and I’ve witnessed first-hand the unique challenges they face. […]
Mediation Is Not Only for Adults!
Mediation Is Not Only for Adults! Child Inclusive Mediation gives you, as a child or young person, the opportunity to meet and talk with a trained mediator who is helping your parents sort things out for your family because of a separation or divorce. This can help you too, whether your parents are getting along […]
A safe pair of hands?
A safe pair of hands? When working with families going through change, we feel a sense of responsibility to ensure that they receive high-quality service and care. When you want to refer a client for mediation, many solicitors, therapists, and other professionals are wondering, “How do I know that I’m referring my client to a […]
What if I don’t want to be near my ex – could mediation still work for me?
What if I don’t want to be near my ex? Could mediation still work for me? Your first contact with a mediator, gives you the opportunity to tell the mediator about these issues. Mediators carry out full domestic abuse screening and assess if mediation is a suitable for you and your ex-partner to work through […]
How do we tell our children about separation/divorce?
How do we tell our children about separation/divorce? Parents who are splitting up may try to protect their children from worry and upset by not talking to them about it. But children pick up a lot of what is going on around them. They need information and reassurance. When older children and young people are […]