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Why Relationships Return to the Same Pattern

A familiar difficulty People often reach a point where they are tired of having the same conversation. One person raises a concern....

When Only the Preferred Voices Count

A systemic reading of the three day wait debate The debate about Ireland’s mandatory three day waiting period for abortion has been...

When Allegations Become a Gate to Contact A systemic and narrative view of family law investigations and lost relationships

In some custody and access disputes, an allegation of abuse or assault is followed by an immediate loss of contact, a specialist...

CORU and ICP on Supervision and Personal Therapy A systemic deconstruction for experienced psychotherapists in Ireland

The Irish debate is often presented as a choice between a statutory regulator that values observable competence and a professional body that...

How Couples Can Have Difficult Conversations Without Losing Connection

How couples can speak clearly, tolerate difference and remain emotionally connected when something difficult needs to be said. A strong relationship does...

What Emotional Accountability Looks Like After Conflict

Conflict does not necessarily damage a relationship. The greater risk lies in what happens afterwards. Couples can survive disagreement, anger and misunderstanding...

How to Stop Parenting Your Partner

A relationship can gradually become organised around one partner managing, reminding, correcting and anticipating, while the other waits, withdraws, forgets or leaves...

Signs of an Emotionally Immature Relationship

An emotionally immature relationship is not simply one in which people have strong feelings, argue or occasionally behave badly. Emotional maturity concerns...

When Living Together After Separation Stops Being Workable

Living together after separation is rarely comfortable. Discomfort, grief and occasional disagreement do not necessarily mean that the arrangement has failed. The...

Managing Money, Privacy and Parenting Under One Roof After Separation

Money, privacy and parenting are not simply three items on a separation checklist. When separated couples continue living under one roof, these...

How to Tell Children You Are Separated When You Still Live Together

Telling children that their parents are separating is difficult in any circumstances. It becomes more complicated when both parents continue living in...

A Household Agreement for Separated Couples Living Under One Roof in Ireland

Separated couples living under one roof in Ireland often need more than goodwill to manage the transition. A written household agreement can...